So you’re thinking about dating younger men…
Stepping out with a younger man requires confidence. Choosing the first younger guy who comes along (because he’s better than nothing), is doomed to end in failure. You need to be in the right place mentally and emotionally to deal with a relationship of any kind, let alone one with a younger man.
Perhaps you’re recently divorced, and think a younger guy will boost your morale – and be a bit of fun. And perhaps it will be. But stepping back onto the dating scene requires courage – particularly with a younger man. Some people will tell you the best way to recover from your past relationship is to put yourself right back out there, but unless you have taken the time to evaluate what caused the break-up of your past relationship, and have learnt the lessons that resulted from it, you’re probably better to go gently and find yourself someone with whom you share much in common to ease back in to the dating game – that person may be someone closer to your own age. Emotional baggage is a sure-fire turn-off for most men, especially for younger guys who lack the life experience to be able to relate to and empathise with the ghosts of your past.
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